Taking the lead is one thing.
Leading while guided by your own desires is another.
Dominating and being in touch with the desires of you and the other…
is next level shit.
When you can find your own desires in dominating AND find the overlap with your subs desires, that’s where the magic lies.
About the workshop
This fundamental conscious domination workshop is an immersive and experiential workshop designed to explore Dominant/submissive (D/s) dynamics consciously. Whether you’re new or experienced, this workshop is for you if you want to gain more tools and experience in the area of domination.
Do you want to try dominating in a conscious, expanding and fulfilling way?
Have you ever dominated, but got trapped in the fear of overstepping your subs boundaries?
Have you ever dominated, but got trapped in pleasing mode, fulfilling the desires of your sub while having no success fulfilling any of your own desires?
Then this workshop is for you.
What to expect from the program
🖤 Practical skills and insights for Domination and submission
🖤 Creating a conscious power exchange
🖤 Negotiating boundaries and consent
🖤 Including aftercare
🖤 Alternating in exercises between being Dominant and submissive
🖤 A consent-based, substance-free space
🖤 Clothes stay on
In this Conscious Domination workshop, we'll explore power exchange as a form of conscious play and a pathway to deeper intimacy, trust, and connection. Through conscious power exchange, both the Dominant and the submissive are fully aware of and consent to the power dynamics at play, allowing both to dive deep.
With a variety of exercises, you'll have the opportunity to explore and experiment with D/s play.
We'll let you alternate between subbing and Domming, providing a chance to explore both sides of the domination coin. By doing so, you'll gain a deeper understanding of both sides of the polarity and what it takes to create a safe, fulfilling, and enjoyable experience for both the Dom and the sub.
You'll have the chance to discover what resonates with you and gain a deeper understanding of your own desires, boundaries and style within D/s dynamics.
Throughout the workshop, we'll emphasise the importance of negotiated boundaries and consent.
When safety is established, a scene can be a transformative and empowering experience for all.
We'll also explore the role of empathy and compassion in successful domination, and how to use these qualities to create a space of trust and mutual respect.
This Conscious Domination workshop is a chance to explore power dynamics and BDSM play in a safe, supportive, and empowering environment. It can be an incredibly transformative experience,
and can help you to build stronger, more authentic relationships in all areas of your life.
What NOT to expect
🖤 Leather whips, pain and torture… the domination cliches.
🖤 Following a script and playing what you THINK is domination (or mimic porn)
🖤 A “how-to” guide to tools and props (e.g. how to work with ropes, whips, restraints, etc.)
🖤 A dating/hook-up event
🖤 A substitute for therapy or counselling
Domination cliches are common stereotypes that are often associated with BDSM and power exchange,
but can be misleading or even harmful when taken too literally or at face value.
Some examples of domination cliches might include the idea that all Doms are authoritarian, sadistic,
or emotionless, or that all subs are passive, obedient, or masochistic.
These stereotypes can be limiting, as they don't take into account the unique desires, needs, and boundaries of each individual.
Additionally, domination cliches can perpetuate harmful power dynamics, such as the idea that one partner must always be dominant and the other submissive, or that domination and submission are always tied to gender roles or sexual orientation.
We're committed to exploring power exchange in a way that's authentic, respectful, and transformative, rather than relying on stereotypes or cliches. Everyone (no matter the gender, sexual orientation, or preference for one of the polarities) has a Dominant and a submissive in them.
We'll provide you with practical skills and insights to help you explore power exchange in a way that's authentic to you and your partner(s).
While we'll provide practical skills and tools for exploring power dynamics, it's important to note that this workshop is not a how-to guide for BDSM tools and props. Although we may play with some tools, we are exploring your own potential. No equipment needed.
This training is also not a substitute for therapy or counselling. While engaging in BDSM and power dynamics can be a transformative and healing experience, it's important to seek professional help if you're struggling with mental health issues or trauma.
Ultimately, the Conscious Domination training is an opportunity to explore your desires and boundaries, deepen your understanding of power exchange, and connect with others who share your interests. We're committed to providing a safe and supportive environment for all participants,
and we look forward to sharing this transformative experience with you.
Reasons to explore conscious domination
🖤 A way to deepen your understanding of yourself and your partner(s)
🖤 Creating polarity that will deepen sexual and non-sexual relationships
🖤 Endless ways to experience fulfilling fun and connection
🖤 Integrating shadow work into your intimate life in a healthy and playful way
🖤 Oftentimes a truly transformative experience
Learning how to play with dominance and submission is about exploring your desires, building intimacy,
and deepening your understanding of yourself and your partner(s). Learning how to play with the power dynamics of domination and submission can be a powerful way to deepen your understanding of yourself and your partner(s). Through the exploration of power dynamics, you can communicate your boundaries, desires, and needs more effectively. This will enable you to build stronger, more authentic relationships,
and to create a sense of trust and safety with your partner(s).
Additionally, learning how to play with domination and submission can be a deeply pleasurable and fulfilling experience. By exploring different roles and dynamics, you can discover new aspects of yourself and your sexuality, and create experiences that are both fun and transformative.
And when done consciously, domination can be an embodied shadow work practice.
Learning how to play with dominance and submission can be a way to explore and confront issues of control, subconscious desire, trust, and vulnerability. By engaging in consensual power exchange, you can build resilience, self-awareness, and emotional intelligence, which can serve you in all areas of your life.
For who is this workshop?
🖤 All levels of experience
This workshop is for anyone interested in learning more about D/s dynamics, regardless of your level of experience. Whether you're new to BDSM or have been exploring for years, this workshop will provide you with practical skills and insights to enhance your experience and deepen your understanding of conscious domination.
This is for you when you…
Want to explore Domination and submission
Might feel a little scared, or not. It’s all good, there will be sweet and loving people ❤️
Have an open mind (or working on it) towards others and yourself regarding kink, intimacy & s'xuality
Take responsibility for your own wellbeing. This means that you can always voice your boundaries.
We will never force you to do anything.Come as you are: any gender and s'xual orientation is welcome
Are single or in a relationship (read the Partner agreements section below)
Are older than 18.
This is not for you when you…
Are not respectful towards others, cross boundaries or display other behaviour that jeopardizes the safety of the group.
Come to “hunt”. Leave any neediness/greediness at home. Instead, allow whatever wants to unfold arise, without expectations.
We ask participants to keep to the guidelines that are discussed at the beginning of the workshop.
When you are not respectful, cross boundaries or display other behaviour that jeopardise the safety of the group we can ask you to leave the workshop.
Partner Agreements
Be sure to watch our video on Partner Agreements here.
If you come with a partner, come in sync. Discuss whether you’ll do the exercises with others,
or only with the two of you. Discuss this for the play party as well.
We strongly recommend discussing boundaries and fears beforehand.
Be specific when you talk about it: what specific actions that you or the other might do could be hard for you to experience? Find an agreement that you both feel good about.
Be gentle with each other ❤️
Tickets
*Please note this is a substance free event. For more info on this policy check out our Terms & Conditions webpage.
*For our Cancellation Policy please check out the page below.
Practical information
Location:
Kanaalweg 84A in Utrecht. There is free parking next to the building by car. If you are coming by public transport, you can take the train to Utrecht Central, it’s a 15 minute walk from there to the venue.
Time:
The doors open at 12.30 and close at 12.55.
Please make sure you arrive before this time so we can all start the workshop together at 13.00 sharp.
The doors really close at 12.55, to safeguard the container we're building. Please be there on time
Who are we?
We are Joey, Maxime, Jeronimo and Jane, together we are Play Partners. Joey and Maxime are twin sisters, Jeronimo and Maxime are romantic partners, and all four of us are friends for life!
We are workshop facilitators, intimacy coaches and (tantric) sex workers. We practice non-monogamy and are passionate about personal growth, intimacy, sex, and relationships.
Want to know more about us? Check us out here
If there are any questions feel free to ask, preferably using e-mail: connect@playpartners.nl.
We are super excited to see you there!!
Much love,
Play Partners